You Either Diminish Or Multiply His Life Force
Sep 30, 2024
Growing up, mom often criticized and belittled my dad.
Ironically, everything that was felt and said about him, became the truth of how he’s lived his life - in the shadows.
I’ve seen men coming home from work exhausted and spent after a hard day, and finding rest and fuel in the genuine appreciation and adoration of their women.
Your Womb-Heart-Throat-Crown emanation, feeling, voice, and perception are oracular. Aka., highly creational.
What you *prophesize,* becomes the tone that is embedded in the co-creational field you hold with him (the same goes for your business and money).
A man's life force is his light, seeds, vision, leadership, and providership.
Even the most confident man can feel inadequate, when his life force is not fully respected, received, and appreciated by his woman.
Most good provider men struggle with imposter syndrome and self-doubt.
No matter how he walks through the world, he needs to know you are taken care of, and happy.
The fastest way a woman diminishes a man’s life force, is through complaining, judging, and making him feel whatever he does is not good enough. Even if it is secret, unexpressed resentment.
Penetrating (energetically and physically) into a woman who isn’t fully receptive to his life force, reinforces his own judgment and rejection of himself.
Nothing fuels him more than receiving your validation of his giving - in the form of your genuine belief, encouragement, appreciation, and delight in him.
He needs to know he is *doing good* for you.
The feminine multiplies and births.
That is, you literally multiply and birth your perception and feelings of him, through your spoken word, womb-heart receptivity, and body expression.
How you see him.
How you talk about him (including to yourself).
How you feel about him.
All become alive and amplified in the co-creational field you hold together.
You can tear him down. Or build him up.
Many of us are daughters and granddaughters of women who turned brittle and defensive around men. Our wombs have inherited cellular memories of generational disappointment and disrespect.
It’s a courageous path, to descend into and soften the parts of you that are hardened and encapsulated in pain, so you can own your God-given creational power to birth what honors you, and him.
