You Cannot Fully Receive Him, Unless You First Receive You
Sep 11, 2024
If you cannot *internally receive* within your own feminine channels, your system will not fully receive his maleness and providership.
One of the things women unconsciously resist the most, is actually deeper, bodily, receivership. Aka., being open for his penetration.
Like, the thing you say you want the most (intimacy with your man, and more cashflow), is the very thing you are resisting to experience within your body.
Something I hear often from women when I teach them hands-on practices to deepen into their receptivity:
“I know this practice is good for me, and I feel more open after I do it each time. But I still resist it.”
Let me be more specific:
“Instinctually, my body knows this is how it opens to receive his penetration and deposit. But I will not allow it.
When a woman is divorced from the primality of her pussy, womb, and heart, she will resist her instinct of receiving, and opt for projecting out her energy to *make things happen.*
Control. Force. And push. All rooted in the distorted dopamine-and-cognitively-driven template of scarcity, rush, and impoverishment that’s deeply embedded in the collective feminine psyche/pain body.
We project out and try to make him listen to us. Cherish our emotions. Meet our needs. And provide for us.
As opposed to:
Anchor into the body’s natural receptivity of him, sourced from our oxytocin-saturated, fluid, soft, wet, and vulnerable, feminine nature (aka., mobilized and hydrated tissues that can feel and hold more sensation).
Our mound of venus, clitoris, vulva, hymenal ring, yoni, cervix, womb, and blood, all hold a specific layer of our primal body intelligence, that is made to receive and amplify what he deposits within us.
These are also some of the channels where we hold the most numbness. Rigidity. Pain. And dehydration. From our feminine pain body.
This receivership frequency we desire to experience with him (men and cash), must be accessed, coursed through, and *give to, received, and multiplied,” within our own feminine channels FIRST.
am not talking about self-pleasure, self-care, and spa days.
This is a very creational part of your heroine’s journey, when you remember how to evoke and circulate the “give to, received, and multiplied” frequencies, within your own multidimensional feminine system.
This also requires you to know, and commit to, how to *unconditionally give to your woman,* beyond what you believe “self-giving” is, such as...
Do you:
Know your feminine physiology intimately, and what nourishes her, feeds her, arouses her, and dilates her open?
Live, breathe, and create from your pelvis, merged with your heart, from the seat and wellspring of your feminine consciousness?
Fiercely devote to giving your woman what it needs the most, no matter how inconvenient and uncomfortable - quitting drinking, breaking from your business and allowing yourself to be provided for by a job, or having that difficult conversation with him in deep raw exposure and vulnerability?
This is embodied devotion. And it starts with your layers of flesh. Your springs of feminine waters. And your willingness to live in the oracular truth of your anatomy and nature.
The world is full of cheap routes that poison the feminine system:
- Sticking a tampon inside so we don't deal with the messiness of our bleed.
- Using a vibrator to quickly get off to avoid feeling difficult emotions.
- Putting on Netflix with a bottle of wine rather than working through that intimacy block with him.
- Buying a course that promises quick cash formula of 30K months instead of working with the slow medicine of dilating our receptive channels.
All these will eventually diminish your feminine vitality, send you crashing and burning, and backfire in all your relationships.
Because, what (and how) we generate, circulate, and multiply within, is what (and how) we are potentiating and birthing outside of us, in our relationship with the masculine.
What’s held in the womb, directs all our relationships in the world.
This can be scarcity.
Or fertileness.
Severance.
Or intimacy.
Avoidance.
Or devotion.
He (your man, your cash, and your relationship with God) will forever reflect back to you:
The *give to, received, and multiplied* frequencies that you are allowing circulating, and multiplying, within your feminine system.
