Wanting a Man to Provide Does Not Make You a Gold Digger
Oct 18, 2023
Women who are deepening into their feminine descent, especially successful and independent former boss babes, often experience shame around wanting to slow down and be provided for.
Approving however this is showing up in you, whether it is “I need to slow down in my business” or “I want to frolick in the garden all day,” is you embracing an aspect of the organic yearning within the collective feminine psyche of “I desire to deepen into my nature to tend to my body, play, rest, nest, and exalt and multiply his seeds of greatness.”
Multidimensionally, the feminine doesn’t just receive, and the masculine doesn’t just give.
His provision for you, is the masculine frame and consciousness you rest in. He gives Life.
Your provision for him, is the richness of your felt-senses and depth of your surrender that nourish and fuel the fires of his Warrior King.
Your fertile and oracular beingness is made to flow into his cup and inspire his greatness, if you first live within the fullness and aliveness of your own feminine waters, through:
Serving God.
Serving union.
Serving the temple of your body, womb, and creational potency.
And serving the fluidity of being a multi-sensory experience to him, and to the world.
You want to recognize that your yearning to be provided for by a man goes way beyond the financial.
You are longing to be contained and engulfed by his consciousness.
Rather than getting caught up in trying to figure out the logistics, can you first feel and hold the intensity of this yearning, and submit to the penetration of it to let it soften you?
Know that whether you decide to keep your current business/career or become a full time homemaker, his provision starts with your openness to rest within his masculine frame, and the frame of your covenant.
When the man and woman are in their rightful roles within a polarized relationship dynamic, he isn’t just giving, and you aren’t just receiving.
Rather, both are in a circuitry of fully devoting to and serving one another’s essence, and multiplying what’s been birthed within this union.
Focus less on him and what he chooses to do. And more on how you are showing up in the RIGHT relationship to your desires, devotion, descent, body, and the Masculine, will support you to be MOVED into the right containment of his providership.
