The Lover Wound
Mar 27, 2023
Many Women Consciously Or Unconsciously Carry the Lover Wound.
The common narratives are:
"Men/The Masculine can't be trusted. He isn't here for me."
Yes, our world is greatly depolarized.
And yes, many of us are daughters and granddaughters of women who experienced hurt with men. And we've lived through betrayal in our past relationships.
The Origin of the Lover Wound Goes Back to the Beginning of Our Creational Timeline.
In Genesis, there was a separation from the Father (you can view this as symbolic and archetypal). Humanity turned away from the protection and provision from God.
And, animosity grew between the first man and the first woman - with shame, and blame.
The narrative of "He is not here for me," took root in Eve's heart and DNA.
Daughters of Eve Held Onto the Somatic Imprints of Hurt, Abandon, and Mistrust.
The Lover Wound is energetically entangled with the Father/God Wound.
Every woman is encoded with the blueprint of the Daughter and the Lover - held and loved by the Masculine.
When there is fragmentation in our Template, we relate to God, men, and money from a place that does not allow us to RECEIVE all of His love and provision.
In Relationship, It Looks Like:
- Your operate from 50/50 and sameness.
- You are guarded around men. Surrender is a mental concept to you.
- You feel the men you meet just aren't good enough, or your partner is not committed enough to "do the work."
- There's a lack of emotional and sexual intimacy and depth in your relationship.
- You body feels rigid and you're in your head.
In Business, It Looks Like:
- You've lived in the masculine overachieve mode for most of your life. You relate to your womb as a reproductive organ that inconveniences you with monthly bleeds.
- You project a "I'm a strong independent woman" image to the world.
- Your work is your primary identity, and sometimes an escape from feeling.
- You're always "on." Your business runs like a rigid machine that is at times abusive to your body.
Reclaiming Your Lover Identity Starts with Restoration of Your True Feminine Identity, In God.
While the first Adam fell from his duties as the Warrior, Lover, King, and Protector.
The second Adam (Christ) rose and resurrected Masculinity on our planet, redeemed humanity, and reclaimed His bride.
You, as the Feminine, live in Him. As His heart. And He is the LOVER to your Soul.
Embracing Your Yearning to Be...
Ravished by your man.
Ravished by money.
And ravished by Life.
Begins with embracing your deepest yearning of being claimed and covered by God Himself - the King of kings.
The eyes of His heart are forever on you - His beauty, His beloved.
He has been waiting to anoint you, and de-armor and safeguard your heart.
