The Feminine Responsibility of Communication
Mar 12, 2025
It’s not his job to read your mind.
What’s hot:
If you have a desire or need, it is 100% your responsibility to express it - verbally, emotionally, and/or energetically.
With clarity, and at the appropriate time.
And then, allow him to provide without micromanaging.
While holding yourself and all the sensations throughout this experience, without collapsing or projecting.
What’s not:
Saying yes when you mean no, and vice versa.
Looping in your mental narrative of “he should have known,” and then getting mad at him for not knowing.
Getting upset that he is not providing the way you want him to provide.
Swallowing your words and not asking.
Often times, the women who are close to us in our circles can almost anticipate our emotional needs, because women are wired to connect on the level of feeling and nurturance.
Men respond best to direct and clear words of what you say you need.
As well as the body expression of our embodied feelings, and the emanation of our desires.
Men are not “little women.”
They do not have a crystal ball that shows them every emotional and sensory detail that is circulating within us.
Neither do we want them to spend all their days and energy figuring out how to please us and anticipate our needs.
This is especially true in relationships where we are going through our waves of feminine awakening:
Women often expect their men to just change and know exactly what they want, because they took a relationship course.
You then resent him for not knowing or providing.
Instead of checking in with your body. Your expectations and projections. And how you are setting the tone in your relationship.
Good men who care about you will always try to find a way to provide.
They respond to:
Your words.
Your feelings.
Your desires.
Your belief and faith in him.
Most importantly (like, the 99% of it), your in-bodied frequency in which your words, feelings, desires, and belief and faith come from.
