Key To Feminine Business Expansion - Our Fertility Continuum
Oct 29, 2024
I truly believe the reason why women have so many money issues, marketing issues, launch issues, and crashing and burning issues, is because we are divorced from our feminine physiology.
Feminine entrepreneurship is still a rather young concept. Because for generations, men are the ones making money.
Which means, the template women inherited for business growth, is still made from/for the male body and hormones.
Almost every client has shared this. There’s this unspoken expectation that we are supposed to be creating and selling all day long, month after month, and year after year.
In short, we are forcing women to live as if we are in perpetual summer/ovulation, when our physiology dictates that we cycle through life, death, and life, and conception, pregnancy, and postpartum.
Coincidentally and not so coincidentally, ovulation is the shortest season in a woman’s cycle.
When we (metaphorically) take away the womb and her continuum from a woman’s life, we take away her organic creative engine and inner compass.
I believe the more we understand the female body and how to truly work with her tissues, fluids, and fertileness, the more instinctual it becomes, for us to tap into our organic creational and receptive range in our business and relationship. And this is why I’ve made it a non-negotiable to teach women this body of work.
Many of the women who came to me for business and money growth, needed to be doula-ed through their descent and death cycle.
In other words, they needed to “die,” in order to grow and rebirth.
Death to a rigid and over-functioning feminine identity.
Death to a business that was built on purely ego-driven goals, and cognitive distortions of success.
Often times, the mentorship was incredibly edgy and deeply humbling for both my clients and myself.
Many came out of the boss babe space for the first time, and needed thawing from chronic functional freeze from the forced spring/summer they were stuck in.
The rite of passage that came from their need to slow down and descend, meant their bodies and nervous system had to feel and remember how to navigate the dark yin of winter:
So, you’re told to stop producing. To take a break from pumping out offer after offer. To be ok with not sharing every intimate detail of your life on social media. And to rest.
And then, allow the intimate slowness and fertile void to nourish and hydrate your depleted creative soils from your hustle years.
The current feminine entrepreneurial space is an interesting mix of biohacking and business growth strategies made for male hormones. Soft girl era. And a slow return to the soma.
Yet it is devoid of the womb and her continuum we are designed to live within.
In short, how we *birth* anything.
I find many women in their feminine awakening are left high and dry, wondering why the marketing and sales strategies they learn don’t yield much for them.
Almost client has shared with me in much frustration at one point, after having gone from mastermind to mastermind:
“I don’t understand what I am doing wrong.”
The truth is, you didn’t do anything wrong.
You were simply handed a business growth system that bypasses the truth of your female physiology and nature.
It is ludicrous and detrimental to a woman’s wellbeing, when we force the same systems and strategies that work for the male body and hormones onto her, and expect her to grow her business in a linear fashion, when her entire fertile and creational range thrive on a continuum.
From follicular to menstruation, and from menarche to menopause.
Each phase of your womb cycle and life stage, merges into the next, and contributes to the whole, which is your overall capacity to feel and multiply the aliveness of success, money, desire, depth, intimacy, and truth.
This includes the sultry summers, and dark winters.
Modern day women, thanks to artificial hormones, gender equality distortions, and body/womb severance, have forgotten how to receive the yin from their winters, descent, and death cycle, which is a necessary and essential component of our entire fertile continuum and creational coding.
This translates to forced creativity and sales from being stuck in perpetual summer. The eventual crashing and burning. The ovarian life force depletion. And the lack of capacity to be penetrated by the sensations that come from void and stillness.
The feminine creates in the dark. In the down below.
Tissues. Blood. Fluids.
Life. Death. Life.
The voice from the cervical mouth.
The seeds of desire in the ovaries.
The gestation and multiplication of light penetration in the womb.
And the birthing through the yoni.
All these gateways, are the forgotten parts of feminine entrepreneurship.
For women, it is never “business as usual.”
Our offers, marketing, and sales are meant to come from the blueprint of our feminine nature and physiology.
From the vitality of our vulvar, vaginal, cervical, ovarian, and uterine tissues.
From our capacity to birth - conception, pregnancy, and postpartum.
From our need to gestate in the dark - met, led, and penetrated by masculine light.
From our blood and fluids that hydrate and nourish our highly creative nature from the inside out.
And from our cyclical rhythms that mimic the heartbeats of earth.
