How to Receive God Through Our Men
Oct 09, 2023
Men are made in the image and likeness of God.
Every man carries the templates of Father. Warrior. King. Beloved. Protector. And Sage.
These are the "masculine creational codes" within God Himself.
Every man we encounter - our father, husband/partner, brother, son, and friend, is an access point for us to experience and receive an aspect of God's love, guidance, and provision.
The feminine is made to receive God through men, and through the Masculine.
At the same time, having the capacity to feel and receive more of Him, comes from our willingness to descend into the body, heart, and womb.
Beyond the walls we've built around and within ourselves. Beyond the layers of trauma, defenses, and resistance that often show up as wanting to control and mother our men.
Feminine receptivity is the absolute foundation to a fulfilling and intimate marriage.
Many women carry the linear programming believing receptivity is the result of us doing something, like getting rid of parts of us that don’t feel safe to receive, taking a polarity course, or starting a daily devotional practice, etc.
We try too hard to overcome our receiving blockages and perfect ourselves, instead of returning to our original design as the vessel that we already are - in and through our relationship with Him.
Feminine receptivity is…
A being, not a doing.
Who we are at the core, not what we get if we try or work on it.
A continuous humbling, like receiving support from a total stranger in your most helpless state, and trusting that God has your back even if you have no idea what steps to take next.
Ongoing deep exposure, like letting your man witness you in the depth of your heartbreak, anger, vulnerability, and yearning, and receiving his adjustment and sword without shutting down.
Feminine receptivity is…
The absolute slaying of the feminine ego, the parts of you that scream "no I've got this and I am a strong, independent woman who needs no one."
An openness that allows you to bare all parts of you in front of the Masculine, knowing one way or another, you are being led and provided for.
A restoration of your nonlinear and paradoxical Deep Feminine nature: always held and anchored in your core, while simultaneously in complete surrender to, and obliteration by Him.
Feminine receptivity will strip you raw and bare.
It will reveal the parts of you that are still in performative mode, striving to be something you are not.
It will activate your pain body in ways more than one, so your body will re-learn how to hold polarities within, and lean into the pleasure of your receiving edge.
It will take you to the Underworld, over and over, and die to the parts of you that are still in resistance to His love, penetration, and provision.
This is the level of intimacy (aka. eros) God created us to be in:
Always in covenant with the Father, King, and Beloved.
Always resting in the penetrative life-giving expression of the Highest Masculine.
Always attuning to His guidance, strength, potency, and containment.
We are MADE to receive God, through our men, through the Masculine, and through Life.