How to Inspire a Man's Greatness
Jan 30, 2025
Living in a world of male standards, we tend to forget just how much women birth all our experiences, especially relationship experiences and dynamics, from *root up.*
Going far beyond its biological functions, our womb space is intricately connected to our female nervous system.
She is the center of our essence. As well as a psychic repository of our past relationship and sexual experiences, including ancestral.
Many of us live in disconnect from our wombs, not aware of the unresolved tension, stress, and freeze that’s held in our pelvic tissues and fascia layers, that’s informing our system “it’s not safe for me to create this experience.”
When we approach and speak to him from a place of survival or closure, we aren’t able to hold the vast love field that is energetically congruent with what we want to inspire in him.
Whatever frequency we *are,* is the very tone we are setting in our relationship, and the tone he is responding to and providing WITHIN.
This is the immense feminine creational power, hence responsibility, that every woman carries.
This power is reclaimed through the physiological and somatic blueprint of your woman.
It takes an initiated woman, to initiate a man’s greatness. And this is through your womb, heart, and female physiology.
This is a loaded topic.
Because if you approach it from any place of control or manipulation, it will backfire.
In short, it has nothing to do with being a high value woman.
Or following a trendy relationship template.
What (organically) initiates a man is your feminine beingness, aka., your essence.
A woman who embodies this essence, embodies a level of maturity and faith of knowing she isn’t just serving him, or her.
She is serving the greatness of union itself, which is 1+1=3.
A woman who’s self serving may use guilt trips or sex to manipulate a man to do what she wants.
Her female system is most likely oscillating between safe and not safe, when it comes to:
“I can mother my inner little girl for not always having had her needs met.”
“I can open myself up for his providership, even if it may not always look like what I expected.”
A woman who believes serving a man means being a passive and submissive trad wife, may say to herself,
“It’s disrespectful for me to disagree. So I’ll just do whatever he says.”
Her female system is most likely in chronic freeze, where fawning is her go-to response.
What’s really underneath it, is:
“Can I feel and embrace my own desires and needs in my relationship?”
“Can I begin to cultivate body safety to feel the intensity of sensations, emotions, highs and lows, so I can be the real, raw, vulnerable, and deeply intimate woman with myself first, and then, with him?”
A woman who serves the greatness of union, is a woman who has courageously walked into the underworld of her cervix and womb.
Where she must face and develop the capacity to see, hold, and integrate the bits and parts of her humanity that have been hiding in the dark:
- Swallowed words.
- Lineage trauma around men.
- Distortion and separation from her own feminine-ness.
- And numbness from her primal creational power.
Then, and only then, will she find the resource and resilience to come back up into her heart and throat.
Into her upper creational realms to feel, speak into, and *effort* his potential, in the vast love field she holds with him.
