He Can't Feel You If You Can't Feel You
Nov 05, 2024
You blame him for not getting you.
“But he just shuts down when I’m expressing my feelings.”
“He doesn’t seem to understand even after I repeated it many times.”
But can he really feel you?
Feminine language is multidimensional.
The more we can descend and circulate our feminine life force, the more organically resonant and magnetic our expression becomes.
While the clarity of your words is an inevitable part of how you communicate, the potency behind your words, is the electromagnetic currents emanated from your body and being.
If you’re saying one thing while *expressing* another feeling, such as “I’m fine” but you’re really fuming.
Or you are telling him “I feel hurt by this” while your body is in closure and womb-heart disconnect, you’re essentially broadcasting mixed and conflicting information.
(Same applies to your marketing).
When the feminine is called into the raw intimacy of primordial union and creational alchemy with her man, God, and masculine principles.
The series of initiatory experiences, will always call you back into the physical and the tangible, so you can FEEL your own:
Flesh. Bones. Tissues. Blood.
Whenever women ask me why their men don’t seem to *get* them:
Their words. Their feminine expression. And their needs and desires.
I guide them deeper into their pelvis:
Clitoris. Labias. Hymenal ring. Inner yoni. Cervix. Womb. Bleed.
Chances are, he can’t fully feel you, because you can’t fully feel you.
Your emotional body needs to be anchored in the physical, in your tissues and flesh, to be emanated, felt, and received.
Modern day living teaches women it isn’t safe to be in our bodies.
So we chronically:
Rush and violate our body’s pace.
Go for habitual clitoral stimulation without deeper connection and tending to the pelvis.
Rely on health experts to poke and scrape the most intimate parts of us, and outsource our vitality and body sovereignty.
When our pelvic tissues are tense, numb, and desensitized, we do not have the nervous system capacity to deeply feel, and be deeply felt.
Over time, the lack of mobility from *down below,* translates to less clarity and potency in our communication with our heart, our throat, and our brain.
Your man. Your audience. And the world need to feel the electromagnetic currents from your heart.
At the same time, your heart needs to be held and nourished by the wellspring within your womb and pelvis - the root of your feminine consciousness and creational range.
In Chinese medicine, the channel Bao Mai, which translates to Uterus Vessel, links the heart to the womb.
When we hold disconnect, dehydration, and extractive patterns in our clitoral, vulvar, vaginal, cervical, and uterine tissues.
Our heart loses her capacity to feel, to alchemize, and to broadcast information to those we desire to reach.
t isn’t just hip circles.
Pleasure practices.
Or polarity work.
When the feminine is called into the raw intimacy of primordial union and creational alchemy with her man, God, and masculine principles.
The series of initiatory experiences, will call her back into the physical and the tangible, so she can FEEL her own:
Flesh. Bones. Tissues. Blood.
A woman finds home in her heart
And origin in her womb
She can then offer her body, heart, womb, and entire being, as the vessel:
To God.
To her beloved.
To the art, legacy, and kingdom that want to be birthed through her.
