Can We Take the Shame Out of Feminine Entrepreneurship?
Mar 21, 2024
There’s no shame in…
Quitting and getting a job.
Not working and being provided for by your husband.
Not having a husband, working a few side gigs to support yourself while growing your business.
Taking a break. A long break, because you need it.
Having $0 months.
Having a $100K month. Then freaking out and dipping back to where you were.
Not reaching a certain income goal..
You are a woman. Not a man. Not a bot.
You’ll have seasons when you want nothing to do with your business, and just want to be fully immersed in life.
Seasons when you’d prefer to get paid a steady monthly paycheck rather than going out there generating your own income.
Seasons when selling high ticket, low ticket, masterminds, membership, 1:1, or group feels more easeful than anything else.
Seasons when you need to pull all your energy back, tend to your own body, and only serve YOU.
Entrepreneurship is a LONG game.
On top of it, feminine entrepreneurship throws (many) additional multidimensionally flavored and highly nuanced variables into the mix, like:
- Your feminine nervous system relational capacity to receive and hold sensations and penetration (which includes the womb and the bleed).
- Your relationship with HIM, with your body, and with your Woman (womb, sex, heart, and throat) - much of it also comes from your maternal lineage.
- The season/cycle you are in.
- Etc.
Notice I didn’t say mindset and strategies, because...
They are the masculine terms, that are set, by your feminine tone first.
The quality of your messaging, the actions you take, the strategies you implement, and the mindset work you do, is determined, by:
Who you BE, as a woman, and where you are in life, in your embodied womanhood, and in your season.
Therefore, the strategies and actions you implement, need to be body/womb/heart/relationally-resonant.
Your Beingness impacts the entire eco-system of your business, because you are a relational and intimate being.
We hold shame when we believe our business isn’t where “it needs to be,” because we are still trying to squeeze ourselves into a dogmatic box portrayed by IG glamour influencer culture.
What if, there is NO box?
I always say to my clients:
“Prioritize taking care of your Woman first. What does she need to feel nourished and provided for?”
And, for the ladies who are still awaiting their King, “How can you provide this for yourself (guided by God)?”
Beloved, it’s time to mobilize the shame.
So much of our shame and self-extracting patterns live inside the pelvic bowl - in our womb, cervix, yoni lips, and clitoris.
This is why in my book, there is no true coaching of a feminine business, without also taking her on a descent and creational journey into her Woman (my 12-month group program Feminine Codex).
The sustainable expansion of your business, is built on the foundation of deepening and widening into your primal feminine blueprint, through your body portals.
Can we put the human and our feminine physiology BACK into everything we birth?
I know, this isn’t a post on “How to reach consistent $50K months with my 7-step formula.”
But for those of you who are here to receive the truth medicine from woman to woman, I trust this is exactly what you needed to hear today.
Now, I’ll also say that as a paradoxical feminine, we do have the capacity to hold it all:
A loving marriage. A thriving business. Buying that dream house. And publishing your first book.
AND, we are here to receive the penetration of Life in this moment - be it a turning point, a void, or heartache.
These two are not mutually exclusive.
There’s been too much dogmatic programming on what feminine entrepreneurship must look like, and much of it paints a woman who’s perpetually frozen in her summer (which is not physically possible), and speaking to her IG followers from Bali in her goddess dress draped in rose petal.
I believe the next wave of feminine awakening is edgy for many of us, because we are breaking out of every layer of conditioning that has immobilized our Woman.
And along with this awakening, we’re asked to mobilize the shame, the uncertainty, the pretense, and the stuckness - all that has prevented us from truly touching the full, wet, and supple yin nature of our feminine-ness.
Into her body. Her womb. Her sex. Her heart. Her throat. And her eros. Into her own death gates, as she’s facilitating life and renewal.
Your relationship with your business will continue to morph, deepen, and widen, as you dilate.
