Are You Assuming He Cannot Provide?
Jul 09, 2024
Assuming he cannot provide that, limits your creational capacity and his king initiation.
Aka., the epic love you both desire.
I know this, because I was that woman who was on a continuous rollercoaster ride of “I knew he couldn’t provide that” in my relationships.
Oh, the turmoil of living in the constant highs of my self-righteousness and justification, and the lows of my disappointment and grief of “the masculine just can’t meet me where I need him.”
Too often, women avoid the edginess and feral quality of our desires, by projecting the “no” onto HIM (this can be your man, or the cashflow you desire in your business).
We then put the final nail in the coffin by resenting him for what we perceive is his failure to provide, hence further collapsing and tearing into the fabric of the union.
For me, much of the whole-ing and recalibration came, layer by layer, from a deep descent into my womb where I needed to uncover the fragmented parts of myself that told such generational stories. As well as a heroine’s journey of rising into my heart and feeling, claiming, and cultivating the capacity to *hold* the raw essence of the desires that have been purified.
Women love jumping to conclusions about whether their men can or cannot provide something:
- “I hide my feelings because he’ll think I’m too much.”
- “I am not going to ask because he’ll just say no.”
- “He’s divorced with kids so I don’t think it’ll work.”
We list our reasons and go through our emotional turmoil.
We think we know our men. We know his capabilities and limitations.
We have experienced similar situations in the past. So we naturally categorize the man in front of us into that specific box.
Often times, we do this to protect our own hearts.
Other times, we genuinely believe we are shielding our men from our *unrealistic* desires, while we re-assert ourselves into the picture as a woman who is perfectly competent and capable of taking care of her own needs.
It may all seem very good-natured...
Except, By assuming his lack of willingness or ability to provide, you are projecting your own perceived limitations onto him, and also robbing him the chance and the choice (always his choice) of stepping into his greatness.
By design, when you hold the raw desire field emanated from, and filtered by your integrated womb and heart (as in, this desire field is non-agenda oriented and rooted in your pristine, primordial devotional *feminine-ness*), you are also holding the energetic blueprint of the kingdom that he is called to build for you both.
He rises, because you descend.
He is inspired to build, in response to your embodied, highly vulnerable, magnetic, innocently erotic, and deeply felt and irresistible oceanic field of feminine thirst to receive and multiply his light.
Your womb is encoded with the creational *1+1=3* amplifying effect, in union with HIM:
God, love, and wealth.
The feminine holds the realms that alchemize energy into MATTER.
It means, your perception, narratives, beliefs, and relational dynamics with HIM, produce MATTER.
This is the creational contractual agreement of the feminine, as a woman of the womb who receives the light substance from the penetration of the Masculine.
You cultivate, amplify, and multiply that which already exists inside of you, as well as penetrates into you.
When you can hold your integrated womb+heart desire field without the somatic imprints of armors, distortions, projections, agendas, and attachment to how HE (your man, your business and money, life, and God) is to meet you, you become the vessel for fertile lushness, deeper love, and miracles.
