7 Pieces of Entrepreneurial Advice I'd Give to My Past Self
Jul 29, 2024
#1. Focus on your life and relationship happiness.
If you put your life, relationship, and pleasure on the back burner to pursue your business goals, your business and money will mirror that back to you, over and over.
Prioritize your relationship with your man.
Allow yourself to receive the experiences you want. Even if you have to save, or (graciously) ask for it.
Start to fill your own cup, at whatever figure you’re at.
#2. Restore your womb and your woman.
Over 90%+ of the quality of your messaging, client attraction, and income growth, is somatic.
A stagnant womb/pelvis stagnates a woman’s creational and financial flow. You’ll end up working twice as hard and making half as much.
Become literate in the texture, feel, and scent of your womb and Woman:
Her rhythmic hormones, cyclical nature, blood and fluids, pulsating eros, and raw receptivity.
#3. Heal your relationship with the masculine
A thriving and body-resonant feminine business is relational before strategic.
Money is high voltage masculine energy for the feminine nervous system.
His thrusts will bring out every relationship and sexual wound that is held in your body (specifically, in the pelvis).
Receiving larger amounts of money the feminine way, requires you to go IN and DOWN. So He can rise, harden, penetrate, and deposit into you.
#4. Sustainability over quick results
Quick cash formulas and overnight promises to 6/7 figures can look and feel so tempting.
But taking your time, building a solid foundation, and going at a pace that is resonant with your body is what triumphs in the long run.
I’ve worked with many women who’ve created high cashflow from sales methodologies that completely burned them out. We had to go back and re-build the foundation.
In time, you get to learn to trust your body, your medicine, and the soul of your business.
#5. Define your goals not by figures, but by intimacy
Your next level income, whether it’s from $5K to $10K, or $20K to $30K months, is essentially a next level receivership portal for deeper intimacy within your nervous system:
With your body, your woman, your womb and heart, and your sexuality.
With your man, father, the masculine, and God.
With the soul and eco-system of your business and money.
Your capacity to receive more money, is and will always will be, relational.
#6. Invest in mentors who hold resonance, not just results
Between a 7/8-figure business mentor who has a toxic relationship with men and her body.
AND someone who’s great at what she does, and is deeply nourished by her relationships.
I’d choose the latter.
While results matter, the feminine requires womb entrainment to “learn.”
As in, our mentors are holding a holistic, living, breathing frequency field, that is congruent with what they are transmitting.
#7. Useful skills over formal education
Years into my business, I realized, if I skipped (the not very useful) undergrad and grad degrees, and invested all that $$$$ in learning real life skills, it would have taken me way less time and effort to grow my business in the early years.
These days, I ask my clients to focus on:
- Skills that can truly help a specific group of people collapse timelines in an area of their lives.
- Skills that are in demand, even in bad economy.
Having shared all this, I am grateful for my past self.
The woman who borrowed money and invested in high ticket sales coaches, only to ditch everything she learned when she realized the lack of congruence.
The woman who went into plant medicine ceremonies asking to be shown the way to 40K months, and realized this wasn’t the Way she was truly seeking.
This woman returned me to my body.
To my womb. My blood and fluids. My primality.
To the rawness and pulsations of my feminine soul.
And then, a whole new world opened up.