3 Reasons Why You Should Go Beyond Cycle Syncing
Jan 08, 2025
I am not approaching cycle syncing from the angle of “good” or “bad.”
If you are just beginning to build awareness around your body and cyclical rhythms, cycle syncing can provide some generalized guidelines and a framework to work with.
At the same time, many women get stuck here, believing this is the roadmap to the deep and highly nonlinear ceremony of their monthly cycle and their womanhood.
Here are 3 reasons why I stopped teaching cycle syncing in 2024:
#1. The feminine cannot be bio-hacked
This may ruffle some feathers. But cycle syncing is still approaching the nuances of the female system through male-body lens.
The female nervous system - which operates in a “root up” fashion from our womb, is way more complex than “you’re in your ovulatory phase so do some public speaking thi week.”
#2. The feminine thrives on relationship, not rigidity.
It means, the eco-system of YOU (your health, love life, sex life, and finances) will thrive far better on your intimate and lifelong relationship with your body and primality, than any formula that tells you how to eat and what to post during each phase of your cycle.
Less *phase,* more *cervix*
While you’re plotting and planning away on your period app, your cervix is cycling through her powerful centripetal and centrifugal forces every month, quietly beckoning you to come home to her.
Knowing, working with, and increasing (in an embodied way) your female nervous system capacity for love, healing, resolution, speaking with prophetic power, and deeper receivership, IS:
Knowing your cervix. Knowing the rest of your womb body. Knowing your female physiology. And living your life from this place.
#3. The womb is a continuum
You don’t just start “catching up on your rest” a few days before your bleed. Everything you think, feel, do, receive, and consume throughout the entire month, codes the bleed ceremony you are to have.
Because...each phase of your womb and life cycle, merges into the next, and contributes to the whole.
It is impossible to divide your very layered and multidimensional female blueprint into separate phases along with a checklist for each phase.
Doing so without true *in-bodied* attunement to your unique physiology that centers around your womb, can perpetuate disembodiment.
The bottom line?
Your system is not an overnight hack.
You are not built to “do something to get something.”
Your animal body experiences violation and closure (which becomes part of your feminine pain body), when you subjugate it to disembodied rules and systems that do not honor her fluid and primal nature.
This creational coding also means...
You cannot find your way into “feminine radiance,” “polarity,” “magnetizing a masculine man,” or “sustainable cashflow with ease and grace” from your head, from trying to squeeze yourself into a linear formula.
Raw, intimate, and lifelong relationship with your female physiology, is a non-negotiable here
Because all the experiences you desire:
To feel alive and vibrant. To be deeply in love. To be birthing your art and being in service. To be nourished and fed by money and by life.
Are...
Birthed from the cyclical fertileness of your womb.
From the innate intelligence of your body.
And from your organic, female, blueprint.
Your feminine capacity to receive and hold the deepest vitality, love, wealth, pleasure, and purpose, where you birth everything from your artistry and essence with a creative edge, is incredible (because your womb is built to nourish and birth many babies).
But there needs to be repair, before the restoration and receivership.
There needs to be a remembrance to walk your womb and your heart close to one another again, after years, decades, and generations of armor and distance.
Start by feeling into the positioning, feels, and shifting circular forces of your cervix every month, beyond the “phases.”
Start by getting to know the intimate landscape of your yoni without the need to extract pleasure and “manifestations” from her. And watch her awaken and blossom with life force.
Start by meeting the expressions of the lack of trust and wounding the women in your maternal bloodline had around men, God, and money in your pelvic bowl and menstruation. Tend to those tissues, and build trust and suppleness with them and within them.
